Make clear what your values are
Your values are your ideas about what is most important to you in your life. What you want to live for and with. They are the silent forces behind many of your actions and decisions. The goal of this exercise is for you to become fully aware of their influences and to explore and honestly realize what your true values are at this stage of your life. You can become more self-directed and effective when you know what values you really choose to maintain and live by as an adult. And those who get priority over others. First you define your values, then you rank your three or five in the top.
| * Be with people
* Be loved * Be married * Have a special partner * Have company * Love someone * Take care of others * Have someone’s help * Have a close friend * Have good friends * Be liked * Be popular * Get people’s liking * Be appreciated * Be treated fairly * Be admired * Be independent * Be brave * Have control over things * Have self-control * Be emotionally stable * Have self-acceptance * Have pride and dignity * Be well-organized * Be competent * Learn and know a lot * Perform much * Be productively engaged * Have an enjoyable job * Have an important position * Make money |
* Strive for perfection
* Make a contribution to the world * Fight injustice * Live ethically * Be a good parent (or child) * Be a spiritual person * Have a relationship with God * Have peace and quiet * Create a home * Keep my roots * Have financial security * Keep me to what I have * Be physically safe * Be free from pain * That no one benefits at my expense * Have it comfortable * hrs a the good * Avoid boredom * Have fun * Enjoy sensual pleasures * Look goodfit * Be physically * Be healthy * Have appreciated possessions Possessions * Be a creative person * Have deep feelings * Grow as a person * Live fully * “ Smell the flowers ” * Have a meaningful task |